Coaching

I’m here to transform your life. To help you fulfill your destiny.

Your Belief Structure

Many of us have deep-seated beliefs we hold onto without even realizing that they’re keeping us from being all we can be. There’s a structure to your beliefs. To get to the root, you have to unpack the layers above. You also need a safety rope because when you go deep, it’s scary, messy and often uncharted. Luckily, I’ve got your safety rope ready, with tools from diverse arenas to serve you. Everything from NLP to years of tactical negotiation training, in the realms of both personal development and business.

Have you noticed that beliefs come in packs? That’s why we have to unpack them; you’re not just figuring out “one thing.”

Like a chef, with coaching there’s prep work that paves the way for the properly-prepared result wanted.

What’s Holding You Back?

You’ve got programs running in the background taking up energy. You’ll never be (fill in the blank) because you don’t have (fill in the blank). If you don’t update your emotional system, that stuff prevents you from being the real you. There’s no such thing as perfection so that’s also a misguided belief at work.

Most adults have a packed life. It’s like running your car with low oil. The car will still run but eventually it breaks down. It’s not whether you’re up or down; it’s how you deal with it. It takes a lot of courage to pull yourself out of darkness and a place you don’t want to be.

People appreciate a lot of the tough challenges I’ve faced. I know what it’s like to be in that space of dark. It’s brutal. The road to getting where you want to go is messy. It’s not a perfect process. Life, work, dating, coaching. It’s all messy getting to the other side. I can help you get where you want to go.

Expert Areas

Success, Storytelling, Leadership

Some people come to me with a specific need. You can see specific areas of expertise I have under the menu, which include: success, storytelling, negotiation and leadership. With leadership, I work on you as a leader yourself as opposed to tactics or assessments. We work on more right-brained than left-brained elements. Leaders often don’t have anyone to go to. You can come to me. I’m not going to tell you your profile on a test. The real work is inner.

Negotiation

Negotiation is also inside out, however, there’s a structure required for a successful outcome. A longer-term negotiation is my expertise such as when you’re selling your business. Like structuring a keynote speech, there are pieces that need to be properly aligned. Being ready for a big negotiation takes preparation. A multi-million dollar negotiation means every text, every email better have a strategy to it. Flying by the seat of your pants doesn’t cut it.

I’ll ask you what else is going on in your life that could derail this. Especially if you’ve got a shark on the other side of the table, you don’t want to get eaten alive. Checklists are great. Structure is great. But you also need to know how to work with your emotions in a highly stressful situation. When you’re prepared on the inside and the outside, you’re going to do very well.